You gotta figure that I'm around athletes pretty much all
day. In the clinic, on the sidelines, at
games and events far and wide. Because
of that, I have the opportunity to observe those same athletes at their best
and worst.
At moments when they are frustrated, beaten down, maybe
about to give up as well as those moments of elation when it all comes
together. Sort of the old Wide World of
Sports mantra "the thrill of victory and the agony of defeat."
I happen to believe that our true characteristics, our basic
self comes out during those times. So I
find myself categorizing teammates. I
generally categorize teammates several ways:
1. The Selfish Ones. You know the type. It's all about them.
Oh, they might pay lip service to "team first" and
all that but if they don't get their playing time or the ball in their hands or
(heaven forbid) be relegated to the bench, then you're going to see their true
stripes.
If they are playing, they might be the ones to yell at
others for making a mistake. If they
aren't playing, they're usually sulking.
2. The "I'm Just Glad To Be Here." They're not really bad teammates but maybe
lack the ambition to be on the field or court when it really matters. Maybe they just want to be a part of
something bigger than themselves. That's
OK.
3. The Vocal Leader. There should probably be a couple of
subcategories here.
The Vocal Leader that is always encouraging others is a good
one. You've probably seen them. They are always upbeat and positive. You want them on your team. They can make the game more fun.
And then there's the Vocal Leader that just sort of yells
all the time. Maybe they see themselves
as an extension of the coaching staff and assume personal responsibility for
things like discipline.
Quick to criticize others, they just might benefit from a
healthy dose of self-inspection. Or
maybe it's all they know--it's how they've been raised or coached in the past.
4. The One That Makes Everyone Better. You know the type. You LOVE playing with them.
Unselfish maybe to a fault, they are more concerned about
helping others and are super low on the selfishness index. You've seen the point guard that seems to
enjoy the great assist more than their own production.
I think most football lineman could be good candidates for
this category. Their name doesn't get in
the newspaper often but they enjoy the clear path they make for the running
back or the double team they take so the linebacker can make the tackle.
5. The
True Leaders. They lead by example,
sometimes not so much by words. They
encourage others. They make everyone
around them better. They work hard,
learn from their mistakes, and admit when they're wrong.
They give the proverbial 100%. You want to be better because of their
unselfish play. They know completely
that together any team is better as a team than they are as a collection of
individuals.
Which one are you?