Tuesday, March 12, 2019

People I want to be around


I want to be around people that are always trying to get better. Those people that are trying to get more informed (better educated). Those people that are trying to be better people. Those people that are trying to get better at whatever they do.

I want to be around people that are always looking to know more, be more…who move with and embrace change. The cliché says if you are standing still, you are getting behind. It’s true. Everything is changing. Technology. Families. How we prepare to pursue our sports. Health care. Nutrition. Access to Information.

Remember when cell phones first came out? I do. My first one was that brick looking thing. I couldn’t believe I could make a call without being physically connected to a land line. When I was a kid, there was this Dick Tracy cartoon. Dick Tracy had this watch looking thing that he could talk to and communicate with others. I never thought I’d see that day.

With the technology of today, our lives are so much more convenient. You can gripe about your cell phone and that you can’t escape but I don’t see it that way. I see it as a convenience—I can make or take a call when I want to. And if you’ve ever been worried about a family member, being able to connect with them on their cell phone is a true angst-reliever. And don’t gripe too much about technology or somebody will come and take your microwave away.

Technology is moving forward so fast that if you so much as pause to take a breath, you’ll be behind. Instant access to the last football play on the sidelines? It wasn’t too long ago that we had crude photographs of the last play being hand carried to the sideline. (Truth be known, I remember chalk boards on the sideline.) Now you have iPads that break the last play down in slow motion immediately after the play is over.

Who would have thought that CD’s would be a short lived source of music? I thought cassette tapes would be around forever. Now you can download all the music you want, keep it in your phone, and play what you want, when you want it. Amazing.

Families are always changing. Growing. Moving. Family dynamics changing. There comes a time when parents become the dependent and children the parents. And your kids won’t stay babies forever. As the old saying goes, if you blink your eyes, they’ll be grown. As a parent, change is constant. As a kid, change is inevitable.

Training for your sport is always changing. I can remember when Pete Rose was criticized for lifting weights during the baseball season. These days, if you aren’t participating in strength training, you’re getting behind.

I remember the days when people would go to the gym to lift weights and stay for hours. We now know that the fastest and most efficient way to get stronger and more fit is to do High Intensity Interval Training. No longer are hours upon end necessary to get better.

Health care, particularly in sports medicine, is constantly changing. Better diagnostics. Better surgery. Better rehab. We are getting people healthy with effective, efficient interventions, returning them to a full life—a life without limitations.

Nutrition. Oh my…nutrition. We still haven’t reached that point where bacon is considered good for you (a personal dietary dream of mine) but we are a lot smarter about what it takes to eat healthier. We know there are good fats and bad fats. We know that white sugar and white flour are twin evils. We know that no one diet fits all.

We have better information at our disposal these days. The internet keeps us better informed. Don’t know how to do something? Look it up. Don’t believe what the talking heads are saying? Do your research. Learn to get facts. In a world filled with bias, prejudice, lies, and innuendo, learn to think for yourself. Seek out reliable sources of information.

As Bob Dylan said, “oh the times, they are a’changin’.” Don’t be left behind.

Sunday, March 3, 2019

The Eagle Award


I missed John Wilson Huffman’s Eagle ceremony yesterday afternoon. I had a previous commitment. I would really like to have been there. John Wilson is one of my favorite kids.

The Eagle award is Boy Scout’s highest award. It comes only after years of dedication and commitment and requires the recipient to have demonstrated leadership and the many tenets of the Boy Scout Oath and the Boy Scout Law. Trustworthy Loyal Helpful. Friendly Courteous Kind. Obedient Cheerful Thrifty. Brave Clean Reverent.

John Wilson’s father is an Eagle Scout. So is an uncle and a cousin. It’s not unusual to see multiple generations of Eagles. I am an Eagle Scout too. It is something that no one can ever take away from you.

I was a green 13 year old kid when the Scoutmaster decided that he was going to make me a Patrol Leader. Boy Scout troops are broken down into smaller groups called patrols. Mine was the Owl Patrol and was populated partly with kids that might be kindly considered misfits.

I was never the smartest, most athletic, natural leader that some were. I was sort of from the wrong side of the tracks. I certainly didn’t have any experience at all in being any kind of a leader. That Scoutmaster was taking a big chance on me.

My Patrol didn’t have a lot of experience in Scouting. I guess they were sort of like an expansion team. What I do recall is that the Owl Patrol pulled together, formed a strong team, and won a major competition at the next Jamboree, a big meeting of several Boy Scout Troops.

Most of the leadership skills that I might have as adult came from the foundation in leadership that I received in Boy Scouts. Everything from building a team to working outside my comfort zone to doing things that I had no idea I could do—all contributed to helping me be the man that I am today.

And any success that I’ve had as an adult is in due to no small part my time as a Boy Scout. So when John Wilson began telling me that he was nearing completion of his Eagle quest, I began encouraging him to finish it up.

Let me tell you a little about John. He came out for the football team at Maryville High last year as a kicker. Most of his sports background had been soccer. Playing behind a couple of kickers that had been doing it for quite a while, John Wilson was not going to get many opportunities.  So he asked for some time at defensive back.

I spend a lot of time with our kickers at practice. They can’t kick the whole time so they get to finish early most days. One of my jobs is to run the kickers through conditioning drills, go over any announcements that might be later shared with the whole team, and send them on their way.

If you were to meet John Wilson, you would immediately like him. With a smile as big as you will find, he will come up and start talking to you at the first opportunity. He got the chance to play cornerback in a couple of JV games. Being on the field, I captured his play on video and sent it to his parents in the stands.

John Wilson will not likely make his living playing professional sports. He isn’t likely to go to college on an athletic scholarship. But he will go to college and he will be successful. I know that just as sure as I know my own name.

He is following in the path of thousands of men that have gotten the Eagle award and then became famous. Men like Neil Armstrong, the first man on the moon. Our own Lamar Alexander. Director Steven Spielberg. J Willard Marriott, CEO of the Marriott Corporation. Sam Walton, founder of Walmart.

Congratulations, John Wilson. Now go change the world.