Impossible is Nothing

I had the opportunity to speak to a group of physical therapy professionals last week at our national association’s annual meeting.  A friend and I had presented at the same meeting last year on “Finding Your Purpose in Life.”  Our follow-up to that one was this year’s “Impossible is Nothing.”

First, let me say that I don’t have all the answers.  I’m still asking questions.  I truly believe Proust’s advice to beware of the person that has found the Truth.  Instead, embrace the person that seeks the Truth.  I’m not talking about your religion—I won’t go there.  I’m talking about the other mysteries of life.

I have to say that I have lived a blessed life.  I never went hungry growing up.  There was always food of some kind on my table.  I always had a roof over my head.  I was able to attend college and marry a wonderful girl that still puts up with me after 42 years. 

I have a wonderful family, great friends, a job I love, and good health.  But I do know that my life has had its obstacles, many of which I have overcome. 

A couple of weeks ago, I wrote about my dad’s heart condition.  What it meant to me growing up was that there weren’t a lot of things that I got to do with my dad.  And those things I could do were sedentary.  It was more like him watching me do things.

I remember arriving at high school and dreaming of playing football but being told that I wasn’t big enough or fast enough or athletic enough.  Later in high school, I was told by a teacher that “my kind” didn’t go to college.   And then the too-often repeated story of my high school guidance counselor who encouraged me to go to TV repairman school, despite being offered college scholarships.

The reality is that no one in my family had ever gone to college.  Other than one cousin, it took another generation for that to happen again.  And the obstacle of paying for college was very real for us. 

I was told I would never get into physical therapy school.   I changed majors half way through college and let’s just say that my academic performance at that point was well south of stellar. 

But I made it all work.  Just like today, I used dogged persistence to make myself a decent football player.  By dedicating myself to the classroom and studying like I had never studied before, I became a good student.  By working throughout college, at one time holding down three part-time jobs, I was able to graduate twice from college without debt. 

I was admitted to physical therapy school and I do believe I’ve done OK in my 40+ year career.

A friend of mine likes to say that “Obstacles are opportunities.”  Somebody tells you that you can’t?  Prove them wrong.  Use it as motivation.  Look for those Opportunities when faced with Obstacles. 

Too small, too slow, too big, not good enough?  Then examine yourself, decide what your weaknesses are, then turns those weaknesses into your strengths. 

Don’t let anyone define who you are or who you can become.  And don’t let your dreams be so small that you have no trouble achieving them.

No.  Dream big.  Change the world.  And don’t let anybody tell you that you can’t.